Dating a man in the process of divorce who is holly weber dating
If he puts pressure on you to allow him to move in with you – especially if the source of his rent is dubious – follow the advice of one strong woman's grandmother: "don't fatten frogs for snakes" …
Don't just let him move in without addressing his past in order for you to observe clues for your future.
Dating is never an easy, straightforward affair; and it probably wasn’t meant to be so either!
When you are just getting to know a person, there are many things to consider, and several lines you cannot cross.
If he brings up conspiracy theories or convoluted logic, these are signs of a paranoid manipulator.
If he flat out does not know what went wrong with the marriage or is evasive, insist he get to the bottom of it with you.
If his discussion of the divorce is a one hundred percent blaming of his soon-to-be ex-wife, take a step back. If, at the core, the problem with his wife was a drug or alcohol problem, she may be responsible for a big part of the breakup, but he may have developed co-dependent tendencies.
This means that he needs to be part of a relationship drama instead of part of a relationship.
With the "slow it down warning" emblazoned on the relationship, let's look at the possible pitfalls your man presents.
The first question that must be answered is: Why is he getting a divorce and what is the timeline?